Trans and Transparent

9. The episode all about SEX

This episode is all about sex — the good, the awkward, the confusing, and the awesome — from a trans perspective. We’re talking pleasure, bodies, dysphoria, euphoria, and figuring out what actually works for us. It’s honest, funny, and maybe a little messy! 

8. Weddings, Dating & Desirability: The Trans Experience

In this episode of Trans & Transparent, we talk about what it’s like attending a wedding as a trans person and the pressure to pass in gendered spaces. We share some funny and eye-opening dating stories, and explore the frustrating reality of how trans women are often seen as side pieces rather than real relationship material. We also reflect on what it means to feel desirable and how to build confidence in yourself.

7. The dark side of T: acne, hair loss and sweat

In this episode, Hunter shares her experience from a recent trip to Finland. They discuss the struggles with long queues for trans health care and alternative ways (and why Benji has to travel to Finland every three months). They also go over the side effects of testosterone along with possible solutions, with a humorous touch ofc ;)

6. Benji and his girlfriend share EVERYTHING

Benji’s flying solo(ish) this week, with a very special guest: his girlfriend! While Hunter’s away, they answer questions about sex, dysphoria, and the real stuff that comes with being in a long term relationship. This episode is full of honesty, laughs, and maybe a little oversharing. 

5. Carry-on penis at the airport & outfits we regret

We look back at our worst pre-transition outfits (there were some horrible choices) and share our experiences traveling as trans people. We talk about awkward airport security moments and discuss packing (the trans masc kind). It’s a light, honest, fun, and slightly chaotic conversation about style regrets and navigating travel while being trans.

4. The public bathroom question: "Do you belong here?"

In this episode of Trans and Transparent, we dive deep into the everyday yet often stressful experience of using public bathrooms as trans people. From anxiety, being misgendered and to the real fears around safety and discrimination. We unpack the social and political landscape that shapes this issue. Whether you’re trans, questioning, or an ally, this episode offers raw honesty, relatable insights, and a call for compassion and change! 

3. Navigating dating as a trans person

In this episode, we dive into what it’s like dating as trans people while answering questions from you guys! Navigating disclosure, safety, dysphoria, and those rare but beautiful moments of real connection. We share what’s been hard, what’s surprised us, and what we’ve learned along the way. It’s honest, personal, and all about finding love while staying true to yourself. 

2. Gender confusion & coming out

In this episode, we talk about what it’s really like to realize you’re trans—often slowly, sometimes all at once, and rarely in a tidy way. We share the early signs we missed (or tried to ignore), what it felt like to finally say it out loud, and how we approached coming out to the people in our lives. It’s honest, a little messy, and hopefully a bit helpful too.

1. We dated before we transitioned (Oops)

In this very first episode, we’re spilling all the tea on how two trans besties ended up here. We’ve known each other since we were six, used to “date” (whatever that meant in primary school), came out to each other twice (as gay and trans), and somehow stayed best friends through all of it.
We’re talking awkward childhood memories, chaotic coming outs, and why this podcast even exists. If you like friendship, gender confusion, and mildly embarrassing stories—we got you.